Archive for October 28th, 2004

fire alarm

Thursday, October 28th, 2004

Today was guest lecture day, a guy working as IT project manager, head of system development for Statoil, Norway’s biggest private company had a talk about methodology and architecture at Statoil. Then in the middle of it the fire alarm goes off. And this reaction I thought was quite interesting. First of all there was no rush, no urgency whatsoever. And looking around the auditorium everyone including the guest lecturer and the two professors had this look of irritation and indifference on their faces. As if to say “oh crap not this now”. So very very slowly we start walking out of the room, going down the stairs and outside in the parking lot. On the way out we pass a janitor in the hall, he was going down to the basement. After a few minutes the fire department arrives on the scene, again no urgency in their conduct. It was a dull event, no smoke seen anywhere, the chemistry institute is right next door from us so presumably they messed something up. But just to see the reactions of the people was interesting, a universal contempt for something that would disturb their day without having any inherent significance to it other than to annoy them.

My instinct reaction was thank goodness that alarm bell they have every few doors down every hallway is not my alarm clock.

tears

Thursday, October 28th, 2004

I’m not going to speculate on where it originates from, I can’t be bothered today. But one thing is for sure, crying is not socially acceptable behavior. It makes people uncomfortable, maybe that’s why everyone shys away from it. Whatever the reason, crying is definitely perceived as a sign of weakness, the ultimate expression of weakness in fact. It’s a taboo, people who cry don’t want others to see them cry, they feel weak and vulnerable.

Well I’m taking a stand right now. I’ve been crying everyday for the past week. Now go knock yourself out.